NOW Is the Time to Increase Sales by Doing This!
THE BIG SHOW & TELL - October 2025
EPISODE OVERVIEW
The October episode of The BIG Show & Tell was a festive close to the yearâcomplete with costumes inspired by Alice in Wonderland. Donna appeared as a spirited blend of the White Rabbit and the Mad Hatter, joined by Kim in her Alicia in Wonderland attire.
While the theme brought playful energy, the discussion focused on serious business value: why nowâin Q4âis the perfect time to increase sales through strategic, thoughtful gifting.
The showâs purpose was clear: timing, presentation, and strategy are what turn gifts into opportunities for retention, loyalty, and measurable growth.
WHAT YOUâLL LEARNÂ
- Why now is the perfect time to review your gifting and marketing strategies to build sales for Q4 and beyond.
- How timing transforms gifting from a transaction to a strategic business decision â whether for the holidays or as a New Year appreciation gift.
- The role of presentation and packaging in turning every gift into a brand story people remember.
- Real examples from The GIVING PLAN showing how consistent, elegant presentation strengthens brand recognition.
- How sustainable materials and thoughtful packaging create a 'second life' for products â like the recycled-metal Bird Feeder Bottle.
- Why imprinting and decoration techniques are more than aesthetics â they extend your message across multiple products for lasting impact.
- Creative inspiration from the product reels and slides to spark ideas for client and employee appreciation that truly deliver ROI.
FEATURED SEGMENTS AND GIFT IDEAS
The Importance of Showing Appreciation
Donna shares a personal story featuring a retro-style lunchbox given to all attendees of the Sticky Note Weekend retreat hosted by Kim and Jill. The nostalgic design created a powerful sense of connection, evoking childhood memories. The lunchbox covers the  5 aspects: Thought, Useful, Meaningful, Memorable, and Unique. It demonstrates how thoughtful gifting brings joy to both giver and receiver. Kim emphasized how Donnaâs approach of giving value first transformed what could have been a simple giveaway into a memorable brand moment.
Giving Value First
Giving value first means doing something kind or helpful without expecting anything in return. Itâs about building relationships rather than focusing on immediate results.
Donna shares a story from when she first moved to Dallas and met a VP at a local bank whose clients were realtors. She collaborated with one realtor to create a custom folder with important info for each neighborhood they visited. The realtorâs clients were so impressed that they canceled another appointment and stayed loyal. A $500 investment turned into a $700,000 home sale. Kim highlighted that Donnaâs âgiving value firstâ philosophy isnât just a seasonal strategy â itâs something she practices daily for clients across the globe. Giving value first builds trust and long-term relationships.
Product Reel #1 â Gifts for the Holidays
Features a curated selection of holiday gift ideas that blend creativity, practicality, and appreciationâdesigned to inspire early planning for client and employee gifts. The first product reel showcased real people using and enjoying their branded gifts â a reminder that the most memorable items are those that become part of someoneâs everyday life.
Donna and Kim discussed how the joy on recipientsâ faces represents what true appreciation feels like â and how the right gift inspires that emotional response.
The Importance of Client Lists
Donna shares that effective gifting begins with truly knowing your clients beyond surface details. Using a Giving Plan helps you consistently show appreciation strategically and sincerely. Remember the five key aspects to Gift Giving -Is the gift Thoughtful, Meaningful, Memorable, Useful, or Unique
Use a Client Checklist to track each clientâs interests and lifestyle.
Understanding clientsâ preferences has become easier than ever thanks to tools like LinkedIn, Google, Facebook, and ChatGPT. She encouraged researching clientsâ interests outside of work to guide more meaningful gift choices. âYou wouldnât give a steak box to someone whoâs plant-basedâ â a reminder that a little research saves a lot of awkwardness.
Giving Without Strings Attached
Donna shared that her journey into gifting began by accident â she simply loved giving. By showing appreciation through unique items at networking events, she noticed a pattern: genuine giving led to referrals, relationships, and repeat business. Kim emphasized the importance of giving without expectation, echoing Donnaâs mantra that generosity with no strings attached always returns positive results in time.
Product Reel #2: Â Sustainable Packaging- The Box Turns Into a Bird feeder
Highlights a reusable water bottle crafted from recycled metals and packaged in an eco-friendly box that transforms into a bird feederâan inventive example of sustainability and brand storytelling.
Corporate Training â Teaching Teams to Give Strategically
Donna discussed her work with companies to train sales and marketing teams on how to plan, select, and deliver branded gifts strategically. Kim praised Donna for simplifying what often feels overwhelming â helping teams turn the desire to give into an organized, stress-free process.
Donna explained that proactive planning and off-season gifting reduce last-minute stress and create stronger year-round engagement. A structured Giving Plan transforms appreciation into measurable ROI.
Employee Fulfillment vs. Employee Engagement
Donna shared a simple but powerful formula: happy employees = happy clients = a thriving business. It's about achieving something desired, promised and predicted, leading to a more meaningful and satisfying work experience. She supported this with key statistics â employees who receive branded gifts stay an average of 1.5 years longer, and 25.8% report feeling more appreciated by their employers.
Kim noted that thoughtful onboarding gifts help new hires feel welcomed and valued right from day one. aligning what employees want out of life with what their job offers. When employees feel valued and connected to their work, magic happens.Â
The Power of Giving Classic Gifts
Donna shares how classic gifts bring a sense of nostalgia that instantly builds emotional connections. Nostalgia is a major marketing trend, bringing people back to simpler times. 68% of consumers are willing to spend more on products that affect them emotionally. Timeless, well-made items have staying power and become part of a clientâs story
Slide Presentation #1: Imprinting & Decoration
Donna demonstrated how far imprinting and decoration have evolved â from laser engraving to full-color, 360-degree designs. She showcased drinkware, journals, and multi-use items that can now be branded in creative, detailed ways. Donna explained that she often repurposes one imprint across multiple products â like a motivational cloud design she used on tumblers, mousepads, and phone sterilizers â creating visual cohesion and brand consistency without additional design costs.
Surprise and Delight Marketing:
Celebrating Clients Year-Round- World Science Day
With her signature humor, Donna transitioned into the next segment by channeling her inner Einstein, reminding viewers that appreciating clients shouldnât be limited to major holidays. For instance, World Science Day, November 10th. She emphasized the importance of Surprise and Delight marketing â sending unexpected gifts on non-traditional dates to stand out from competitors. Appreciation outside of major holidays amplifies impact and memorability. Unexpected gifts inspire conversation and long-term loyalty. Thoughtful timing keeps your brand top of mind all year long.
Product Reel #3: Holiday Gift Inspiration That Work Hard for Your Brand
Features high-impact branded product ideas to spark inspiration for the upcoming holiday season. Emphasizes timingâplanning now ensures meaningful gifts reach clients and employees when they matter most not during the mad rush of the holiday season and if there is no time now then, think about Q1.
Slide Presentation #2: Packaging & Presentation
Donna and Kim moved into one of Donnaâs favorite topics â packaging. Donna explained how presentation is part of the gift itself and shared how sheâs become known for her signature silver packaging theme: silver paper, wire ribbon, gift tags, and tissue. She shared that many recipients tell her they hesitate to even open her gifts because theyâre so beautifully presented. Kim humorously admitted that wrapping is not her strong suit and praised Donnaâs attention to detail.
âTwas the Night Before Entrepreneurial Success
Donna closed the show with a heartfelt reading of her own version of ââTwas the Night Before Christmas.â Kim proudly introduced it, sharing how special it was that Donna wrote the piece herself and describing it as both festive and meaningful.
A creative twist on the classic poem with a business and gratitude theme. Opens with holiday scenes of gifts, notes, and appreciation flowing between clients and companies. Emphasizes the value of handwritten notes and personalized gestures. Mentions The Giving Planâclient lists, budgets, and gifting strategies as the foundation of success. A surprise email from a grateful client reinforces the emotional payoff of appreciation. Gratitude is the catalyst for referrals, testimonials, and loyalty. Reminds to give without expectation using gifts that are thoughtful, meaningful, memorable, and useful. Highlights The Art of GIVE-ology and the mission to inspire entrepreneurs and corporate teams. A reminder that gratitude drives long-term success
BUSINESS HIGHLIGHTS
Kim wrapped up by celebrating Donnaâs accomplishments â from her workshops and corporate training to The BIG Show & Tell, her gift catalogs, and her book The Art of GIVE-ologyÂŽ. She praised Donnaâs role as a leader and educator in the promotional products industry, calling her work âa legacy of giving.â Donna closed the show by thanking Kim and the audience for their ongoing support throughout 2025.
- Giving value first and planningâwhether before year-end or at the start.
- Strategic timing turns appreciation into revenue. Use Q4 or early-January gifting (value-first) to deepen relationships and drive measurable follow-up.
- From imprinting and personalization to packaging and presentation, every visual cue reinforces your brandâs quality and purpose.
- Employees and clients who feel valued stay loyal longer, become advocates, and increase lifetime value for your brand.
- Consistent, thoughtful gifting is about strategic intention that strengthens relationships and sustains sales momentum.
QUOTE OF THE MONTH
âItâs not about increasing your budget â itâs about changing your strategy.â â Donna Bender
CALL TO ACTION
Want to increase your sales NOW?
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- Our next BIG Show & Tell is live on January 27th, 2026, at 1:00 PM CST
- Book a strategy call to find your perfect gift approach today. Email :Â [email protected]Â
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